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Kimberly Ann Hawes

Kimberly Ann Hawes

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Walk Into Your W.O.W. Lifestyle: From WTH to WOW

 Walk Into Your W.O.W. Lifestyle is not another soft little reinvention guide telling women over 50 to drink lemon water, buy a beige cardigan,…

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Too Many Ideas, Not Enough Follow-Through: What Finally Changed

If you’ve been trying to figure out how to fix too many ideas and not enough follow-through, this is for you. I built an…

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High Standards in Dating: Why You’re Not “Too Much,” You’re Just Misaligned

High standards in dating are not the reason you are single. They are the reason you are not stuck. There is a version of…

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Emotional Regulation for Women: How to Stop Spiraling and Start Responding

Emotional regulation for women is not about becoming cold. It is not about becoming detached, robotic, or so controlled that nothing can reach you….

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Why He Hasn’t Texted Back: The Psychology You’re Ignoring

Why he hasn’t texted back is rarely about a dead phone, a busy schedule, or Mercury in retrograde. It is about power, perception, and…

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The 313 Method: The Hour I Started Listening

The 313 Method: The Hour I Started Listening The 313 Method did not begin as a strategy. It began at 3:13 AM. Not once….

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Ready for a Relationship After Being Single

Listen instead of read Being ready for a relationship after being single is not a declaration you make to anyone else first. You make…

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The UnFuckable Code: How I Turned My Breakdown into Unshakable Inner Power

🥂 This champagne glass is a symbol. My UnFuckable Code. Not indulgence. Not escape. Clarity. It marks the moment I sat with myself long…

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Building Wealth After 40: For the Woman Who’s Done Playing Small

Building wealth after 40 is not a second chance. It is the first time you have done it with full information. You know what…

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Build a Life That Doesn’t Collapse Under Pressure

To build a life that doesn’t collapse under pressure you have to stop decorating it and start constructing it. We spend a significant amount…

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  • Control Your Damn Emotions
  • Unfuck Your Life
  • Raise Your Damn Standards
  • Before You Ask
  • About
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